I usually don’t talk much when it comes to inspirational or motivational changes . I’m not a physiologist or a mental specialist . Not even motivational speaker . But people that know me well – they think I am . I don’t really know for sure , but what I do know is to change when I felt necessary to change .
1. Spend more time with your family .
There’s a big rationale on why I said this . Family is everything to us , even when you least expected , they’ll help you out . Blood is thicker than water . So , if you want to be a great and charismatic person , it comes from your very home .
2. Try to talk and think more .
There’s not big of a deal if you a bit hot tempered person , or someone that took action more than thinking it further . Charismatic comes from your bravery to speak up and your actions really set people’s impression . If you want to do it , think what may it be affect you and your loved ones .
3. Discipline is a key of success .
Quite handful of successful persons already hits their own glory . One of the key to become just like them is discipline . On what ? Maybe on your daily routine . Or perhaps your lifestyle ? Or on how you may look? Just try to be disciplined on things that matter around you – but not too much though . Discipline is NOT an excuse for violence .
4. How do I look ?
First impression is a very big ‘rights’ to everyone . You may say , “you can’t judge me by the way I looked” when your appearance is not pleasing enough . Still , not everyone can accept that kind of thought . Crowd will judge you , ignoring the old philosophy that are really hard to made it true . Do some styling that fits you just perfect . No OVERDO , and LESS DO.
5. How’s your heart doing?
I’m not talking about your heart , I’m straightly asked you about your soul . Your sympathize , empathy and your understanding too . Women usually comes in all packages of this feature (some is still very much devilish) , while the men , hard on the front but soft on inside . Without empathy , IQ is fairly unimportant in making decision.
One thing that divided mankind to two categories : leader and followers . That’s why leadership is very rare to find these days. If you watched all the sci-fi, movies nowadays , hero / heroin really had some guts and leadership . As much as all the fiction fans really wished one of the stories were true , it can be possible if you made the strength in the hero/heroin’s characters as your primary profile .
Maybe it’s not much , but I’m pretty sure that you’ll get another difference tips on self-motivation posts elsewhere .
By the way , have you seen Alan Becker’s stick man animation?
More like FlashDeck’s, but this one is “terribly” fantastic .